A Valentine’s Day Challenge

Ever wonder how the expression carrying a torch originated?

English: groundhog
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It’s February already. Groundhog’s Day is behind us—the cute little rascal didn’t see his shadow. (Did you know that 90% of the time he does?) And Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. That’s what got me thinking about this cliché.

First, let me confess my ignorance. I always thought to carry a torch for someone meant you had the hots for them, plain and simple. Not so. The phrase actually refers to an obsessive attraction, usually in the face of unrequited love—the typical stalker.

The expression has its origin in the political arena. In days of yore, torchlight parades were common during political campaigns in rural America. Many an enthusiastic follower took part in such rallies. The torchbearer wanted everyone to know he was wholeheartedly behind his candidate. Eventually, the description of a passionate political follower morphed into an obsessive lover. Hmm…follow that logic!

What does that have to do with Valentine’s Day? Nothing, I hope! I must admit, Valentine’s Day has never been a favorite of mine. I know…strange confession for a romance writer.

Anthropomorphic Valentine, circa 1950–1960
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Valentine’s Day is a time to show that special someone how much they mean, do something special and romantic, and take time from a busy schedule to nurture what’s most important—a relationship. Why should we limit that to only one day a year?

Every day should be Valentine’s Day.

I can almost hear the grumbling from here. I don’t have time—it’s too expensive. (Oh wait – that’s me!) The truth is, it doesn’t cost a thing to give our loved ones an I’m-glad-you’re-mine hug, and it only takes a few seconds. I bet, if we put our minds to it, we could come up with lots of ways to make each day special. That’s my Valentine’s Day challenge to you.

Now, here’s the fun part. Who is your special Valentine every day of the year? (First names only, please.) Or, maybe you’re carrying a torch for someone? I’ll answer first since it’s my question.

I’m carrying a serious torch for George Clooney!

How about you?

George Clooney

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6 Responses to A Valentine’s Day Challenge

  1. Sharon says:

    Hi Dixie,
    I agree about Valentine’s day. We should show our love every day. My real-life torch is my husband Bill, who has tolerated my antics for 25 years. However, if you look over your shoulder while chasing Clooney with your torch, you’lll see me right behind you!
    Great post. thanks for the origin lesson. Interesting.
    Sharon

  2. Chelsea says:

    I’m carrying a big crazy torch for Troy : )

  3. Dixie Brown says:

    Lol! Oh good, I’m in good company then! Thanks for your comment, Sharon.

  4. Dixie Brown says:

    And Troy is a luck guy! Thanks for stopping by Chelsea.

  5. Laura Cheshire says:

    I love how educational your blog is, about everyday phrases and concepts. I always learn something. I agree that it doesn’t take long to let someone know you care. I read somewhere recently about people committing to doing something every day for a year…what that would take, and what it would be like. They gave examples of people blogging, painting pictures, walking ten thousand steps, etc. but maybe what I will do is to commit to doing something special for my honey, for no good reason, just because, every day. Shouldn’t be too hard! And it might be a very interesting process. Hmmmmmmm. Oh, and yes, I carry a current torch, but it’s not for public consumption. My obsessive torch carrying never is.

  6. Dixie Brown says:

    Haha! You chicken, you! Okay, I guess I’ll let you get away with that. Your suggestion of doing something nice for your honey each day for a year is terrific. That could even be relationship-changing. Keep me posted. Thanks for stopping, Laura.

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